After my miscarriage and the subsequent discovery that it had been a ‘blighted ovum’ which was not compatible with life, I started dreaming of ways to do one more round of IVF. I was in the process of selling the house I owned with my Mother (but didn’t live in) and buying another property where we could both live in separate abodes. This certainly wasn’t leaving me with any disposable income but what it did do was to clear my debt. In order to qualify for a mortgage I had to roll my existing debts into my new mortgage. My … Continue reading IVF for the 3rd time.
First off let me start with a trigger warning because Loss is mentioned and I know that can be hard for a lot of women. My RE was perplexed as to why I wasn’t getting pregnant. He decided he would do ERA testing. This is where they take a scrape from your uterus and send it off to establish the ideal time for transferring an embryo. At the time I did this, it was in early stages and my sample had to be sent to Spain for analysis! I remember thinking it was very strange that now Spain was … Continue reading more IVF and a Loss….